Are you bored in your marriage? It might not be the most comfortable thing to admit, but hey, no one really got anywhere solid and lasting by skirting around the truth.
Sometimes, when things seem mundane, it can be tempting to wonder if there’s something wrong with the relationship. But the reality is anything that doesn’t have some spice and spontaneity added to it sometimes can make even the best of things seem like a chore.
Do you want to make sure that doesn’t happen in your own marriage?
If so, we’ve got some tips.
1. Switch up on house duties
You might not have thought house duties was going to come up on the list, but just think about it. How would you feel to walk in the house and see your husband folding the laundry even if he hates doing it? Pretty elated, right? All of us have things that we’d prefer not to do that needs to get done. It is a thoughtful gesture to take the initiative to do each other’s regular tasks sometimes. Trust us, it can earn you some MAJOR brownie points.
2. Break out of your sex routine
Do you always have sex in the same room and in the same position? While we don’t want to get all up in your business, it can only make your love life better if you try to step outside of the box, and bedroom, every once in a while.
3. Send a "just because" gift to them at work
Gifts are always nice. But there’s something that’s really special about receiving them when they’re not on Valentine’s Day, Christmas or a birthday or anniversary. It doesn’t have to be anything super expensive. Just a token that let’s your spouse know that you really do love and appreciate them.
4. Spend the night at a hotel (or better yet, a bed and breakfast)
There’s really and truly not enough that can ever be said about hotel sex. The change of scenery, the big fluffy bed, the room service---everything about the experience is phenomenal! The only thing that might be better is a bed and breakfast. They have a homey feel with lots of amenities and usually meals (at least breakfast) are factored in. You can read reviews on bed and breakfasts all over the country at Bed and Breakfast.
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Sometimes, when things seem mundane, it can be tempting to wonder if there’s something wrong with the relationship. But the reality is anything that doesn’t have some spice and spontaneity added to it sometimes can make even the best of things seem like a chore.
Do you want to make sure that doesn’t happen in your own marriage?
If so, we’ve got some tips.
1. Switch up on house duties
You might not have thought house duties was going to come up on the list, but just think about it. How would you feel to walk in the house and see your husband folding the laundry even if he hates doing it? Pretty elated, right? All of us have things that we’d prefer not to do that needs to get done. It is a thoughtful gesture to take the initiative to do each other’s regular tasks sometimes. Trust us, it can earn you some MAJOR brownie points.
2. Break out of your sex routine
Do you always have sex in the same room and in the same position? While we don’t want to get all up in your business, it can only make your love life better if you try to step outside of the box, and bedroom, every once in a while.
3. Send a "just because" gift to them at work
Gifts are always nice. But there’s something that’s really special about receiving them when they’re not on Valentine’s Day, Christmas or a birthday or anniversary. It doesn’t have to be anything super expensive. Just a token that let’s your spouse know that you really do love and appreciate them.
4. Spend the night at a hotel (or better yet, a bed and breakfast)
There’s really and truly not enough that can ever be said about hotel sex. The change of scenery, the big fluffy bed, the room service---everything about the experience is phenomenal! The only thing that might be better is a bed and breakfast. They have a homey feel with lots of amenities and usually meals (at least breakfast) are factored in. You can read reviews on bed and breakfasts all over the country at Bed and Breakfast.
Love this article? Share it with your friends on Facebook And Follow Us on Twitter @lifestylegist FOLLOW US ON OUR BBM CHANNEL C002A9544 FOR LATEST GIST.
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